On the eve of her fiftieth birthday, Pamela Druckermanâs life has stalled. She was in her early thirties when she moved to Paris, married a dashing fellow journalist, and became a celebrated author. Yet now, itâs her husband who churns out a book a year and wears earplugs around the house. Her adolescent children are more French than American, and her Parisian neighbors havenât gotten any more welcoming. Once a prolific writer, she has slipped in status to her familyâs head of purchasing and quality control.
Tired of feeling unappreciatedâand tempted by an unexpected offer from a man from her pastâDruckerman decides to try on the famously flexible French approach to monogamy (âWhat is fidelity, really? Isnât it to be true to yourself?â). She grants herself a one-off fiftieth birthday present: a secret afternoon with âthe banker.â
What ensues is more than she ever expected. Is this radical self-care or relationship suicide? Have honesty-obsessed Americans been approaching coupledom all wrong? Can an American in Paris ever truly become French?
The Monogamy Prize is a disarmingly intimate and deeply funny account of one womanâs passage and a bold exploration of the rules of modern marriage.
On the eve of her fiftieth birthday, Pamela Druckermanâs life has stalled. She was in her early thirties when she moved to Paris, married a dashing fellow journalist, and became a celebrated author. Yet now, itâs her husband who churns out a book a year and wears earplugs around the house. Her adolescent children are more French than American, and her Parisian neighbors havenât gotten any more welcoming. Once a prolific writer, she has slipped in status to her familyâs head of purchasing and quality control.
Tired of feeling unappreciatedâand tempted by an unexpected offer from a man from her pastâDruckerman decides to try on the famously flexible French approach to monogamy (âWhat is fidelity, really? Isnât it to be true to yourself?â). She grants herself a one-off fiftieth birthday present: a secret afternoon with âthe banker.â
What ensues is more than she ever expected. Is this radical self-care or relationship suicide? Have honesty-obsessed Americans been approaching coupledom all wrong? Can an American in Paris ever truly become French?
The Monogamy Prize is a disarmingly intimate and deeply funny account of one womanâs passage and a bold exploration of the rules of modern marriage.